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• The one who chooses to love will find appropriate ways to express that decision everyday.

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• Before marriage, we are carried along by the force of the in love obsession. After marriage, we revert to being the people we were before we fell in love.

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• It may surprise you that the primary lifetime threat to your child is his or her own anger.

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• Most of us have more potential than we will ever develop. What holds us back is often courage.

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• Lack of courage often hinders us from accomplishing the positive things that we would like to do.

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• The object of love is not getting something you want but doing something for the well being of the one you love.

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• At the heart of mankind’s existence is the desire to be intimate and to be loved by another. Marriage is designed to meet that need for intimacy and love.

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• Isolation is devastating to the human psyche.

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• Each of us has an individualized perception of the purposes of money, and we have various emotions associated with spending it.

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• People who are in love lose interest in other pursuits. That is why we call it obsession.

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• Anger held inside becomes hate.

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• Discovering your own love language helps you understand why you feel more loved and appreciated by certain people than you do.

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• Life is filled with opportunities to express love by acts of service.

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• Love doesn’t keep a score of wrongs. Love doesn’t bring up past failures.

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• Love is the most important word in the English language and the most confusing.

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• It takes time and the conscious choice to listen.

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• We are trained to analyze problems and create solutions. We forget that marriage is a relationship, not a project to be completed or a problem to solve.

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• Love makes requests, not demands.

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• True love cannot begin until the in love experience has run it’s course.

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• All of us blossom when we feel loved and wither when we do not feel loved.

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Gary Demonte Chapman (34)

Birth:	10th January, 1938
Nationality:	American
Profession:	Author, Counselor, Pastor

About

Gary Demonte Chapman is an American relationship counselor and author of the The 5 Love Languages series. He also has a radio program on marriage and relationships that airs on over 100 stations and can be heard via the internet. He earned a Bachelor of Arts and Master of Arts degree in anthropology from Wheaton College and from Wake Forest University. He also received Master of Religious Education and Doctor of Philosophy degrees from Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary. He is also the senior associate pastor at Calvary Baptist Church in Winston-Salem, North Carolina.

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